Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Riches and wealth


Many wealthy people do not understand the anxiety they feel at night. They worry too much about their loans, mortgages, debts, and everything related to money and wealth. On the other hand, a simple person who lives with contentment and satisfaction often feels refreshed at night and sleeps soundly. Worry deprives a person of a good night’s sleep.
Have you ever imagined someone going to bed with his thoughts completely preoccupied with money? Even in his sleep, he dreams about it. In the morning, he wakes up and still, money is on his mind. He eats breakfast without truly enjoying the meal because his thoughts are burdened by financial concerns. This is what we call a topsy-turvy mind. 

By the end of the day, he is already exhausted. What increases a person’s anxiety and misery is an uncontrollable appetite for power, wealth, and fame. After wallowing in the mire of filthy riches, he is lulled into a false sense of security. Is that not sad?

Even today, it is not surprising to see how some people trade their dignity and reputation for money. It is as if someone says, “How much is your life worth? Here is the payment. I believe you can do this.” See how money can easily cloud one’s judgment, how wealth and power can obscure one’s perception. So many crooked ways are caused and aggravated by the pursuit of power, fame, and wealth.
Little do they know that money can be one of the greatest sources of stress on earth. Little do they realize that, in eternity, money is worth no more than dust.

In a sudden twist of fate, all that constitutes mans happiness will fade like a mist before a morning sun... The fleeting pleasures, the pompous glory and the unspeakable power and authority became like a dream of yesterday. Thus, what we call, “man's pursuit of shadows”.

No matter how much we value our earthly tangible possessions, our possessions will never value us when we draw our dying breath. Let us look at the hands of a dying person whose life is on the brink of death and notice how they grasp the things they've neglected in their healthy fruitful years. When a person’s life is now hanging by a thread he is either holding the hands of his loved ones, rosary, scapulars or prayer booklet. We were made from dust and to dust we shall return.

Close relationship matters most in life. It is not what you have, but who you have in life that really counts. Develop a kind and long lasting relationship. Let’s all nurture the relationship we have with our family. Most of all intensify the relationship we have with our Heavenly Father.

Commandments for a wonderful life



START smiling.
LOAD the love and care.
OPEN your heart.
BROWSE and ENTER others interest.
MAXIMIZE compassion.
Don’t ESCAPE from trials.


DELETE worries.

ENCODE your happiness.
SCAN your blessings and PRINT it.
ABORT self-righteousness.
CUT envy and jealousy.

CLOSE the WINDOWS of hatred.
END greediness.
SHIFT anger.
Give SPACE to your love one.
CONTROL your temper.

SAVE your chastity.
SHUT DOWN your pride.

SHARE your blessings,

and SEND it to many.
CHARGE by praying :-)




© Romeo Ariston King G. Gatan 07/31/11




Savouring ourselves in contemplative silence



Our tongue practically weighs nothing... Anatomically speaking, it is approx. about 15gms in weight. But why is it that most of us could hardly hold it? How come that we find it difficult to carry our tongue? God gave us two ears and only one mouth to limit our being talkativeness


Sometimes our mind can be so cunning. it has its own way to trick our tongue. 
One reason why SOME people can't hold their tongue is because, people love to talk more than to listen. we are a man of words. we love to talk and talk. all we wanted is to be heard. there is the uncontrollable drive in us to be recognized. we wanted to monopolize all the issues to gain higher reputation. 

Our tongue became the tool for destruction. we can't hold our tongue for a moment because the moment we held it, we feel that we are deprived with power and freedom. We feel inferior, everytime we close our mouth. And right after we locked our lips, we feel that we are a captive of silence. If we hold our tongue for a moment, we feel that we are down and helpless because we were used to exalt ourselves with our tongue. 
Our reckless tongue now has become the ultimate tool to show our true self to others. we use our tongue to lift our personal being... Some of us wanted to be popular by talking. Talking became our unhealthy habit. 

So there also goes the reason why we are always in trouble. why we always feel sad. why we always seemed to have lived in misery.. 
all of these troubles happened and will continue to happen unless we learn to hold our tongue. 

Lets endeavor to hold it even for just one minute. even for just a day.. we never learned the importance of reflecting before talking. Bottom-line is meditating first before talking... I believe that if our mind gets tired, our tongue also gets tired. 
funny thing is that we have the ability to control and tame our tongue, but then, it seems that it is the tongue that manipulates us. 

To be eloquent and prolific in everything one must first value silence and deep contemplation... And most of all, one must seek His Divine wisdom and good counsel.. 

Journal Entry #08 
©RAKG